Saturday, September 28, 2013

Refutation and Reconciliation: a rebuttal for "the Girl Can't Help It" by Ehrenstein

Confession to everyone reading this: I am a Roger Ebert fan.  Though he occasionally said and did things in the critical world which leaned toward the ridiculous, he had some great opinions and is a childhood idol of mine.  I still have him on my Rss feed, and when this article about the Roman Polanski rape case, written by a Mister Ehrenstein at the Fandoor.com website, showed up I couldn't resist comment.

Mister Ehrenstein's snickering "review" of Samantha Greimer's autobiography strongly implies that Ms. Greimer was not only asking for what happened to her, all of the sexual activity she engaged in  - including an encounter with her boyfriend directly after the rape - indicates that she made up her emotional trauma for money.  It suggests that Ms.Greimer's autobiography - which she wrote as a way to take her narrative out of both Polanski's hands and the police's - is a silly puff piece, tittering over Greimer's sarcastic narrator's voice and retrofitting excerpts drawn from the text to make it look like another simpering tell-all book. It is the most crystal clear example of rape apologia I've ever read.





In his world view, Roman Polanski has suffered so much in his life - he's a Holocaust survivor and the would-be mother of his child Sharon Tate was infamously murdered along with his unborn child by the Manson Family.  Therefore, the article heavily implies, hasn't Mr Polanski earned the right to indulge in a little underage trim?  And because it was a 'gentle' seduction, shouldn't he be allowed to make movies in America?

I would like to direct the next few paragraphs directly to the the writer of the article.  Tell me, Mister Ehrenstein, have you ever spent time with a rape victim?  Do you know that each woman behaves differently when she is raped?  No, I suppose you don't - I suppose all and sundry are required to behave a certain way that is completely beyond reproach, so that men like you will believe their accusations, and more importantly so that the poor, suffering 'genius artist' that is Mister Polanski can go on to receive proper reward for his talents.

Even though those rewards have unstintingly flowed toward him since his attempted prosecution.  Mister Polanski, it is worth noting, received Oscars well after the rape accusations were made, including a Best Director award for The Pianist.  He has celebrity supporters in high places all over Hollywood - Sean Penn to name one.  He continues to make movies which are screened and broadcast worldwide, and make the types of pictures he wishes to make to boot.  The only true impact this decision has made on his career is that he can't enter America and that various gung-ho LA DAs occasionally try to bring him in on these charges.  

But here is the crux of the truth, of the law.  Even if Ms. Geimer was a consenting partner in the sexual act she entered into with Mister Polanski, Mister Polanski is still - golly gee willickers - a rapist, simply because Ms. Geimer was a child of thirteen when she entered into the act.  You did know that the centers of logic have not yet been formed within the brains of thirteen year olds, and that a thirteen year-old has no idea how their actions will effect them, didn't you?  There are studies about that.


The thing Mister Ehrenstein has so flippantly glossed over is that Ms. Geimer's life hasn't been a barrel of laughs since the day she 'condemned' Mister Polanski to live a life of opulent luxury in France.  All of those post-rape behaviors you don't seem to see in her behavior when she was oh, thirteen, and dealing with a life-altering trauma manifested in her late teens, in the form of addiction and unstable relationships.  Her mother declared that she was never the same girl again but, of course, that's probably just heresay to get more money out of the ~incredibly sympathetic public.

Ms. Geimer, meanwhile, has had to live under the umbrella of these accusations for years and when she finally - thirty plus years after the case - dared to tell her side of the story for monetary gain she was met with yet more derision. No matter what she does, she'll be known for the rest of her life as that  terrible, terrible bitch who got Polanski banished from the US.  How dare she try to control the narrative after Mr. Polanski has, for years, used to to garner sympathy about the mean, mean American government that won't let him attend American festivals?  Even her equanimity about the situation, her willingness to let it go and let him live his life, has been called into question.  What else can one do, when one wishes the smearing were over, and one wishes they had dominion of their own words again?

Re-reading Mister Ehrenstein's article, his basic position jumps out and states itself in the form of a simple question: how dare she have recovered from her trauma?   If she were REALLY traumatized, why isn't she curled in a ball, hiding under a bed, sobbing her eyes out every day of her life?  How dare she not be a sad-eyed thirteen year old for all of eternity?


It's still all about poor, persecuted Mister Polanski, who can travel anywhere in the world, to any country, but one.  I return Mister Ehrenstein's sarcasm with my own as I assure you that my heart breaks for Mr. Polanski as he dwells in his well-secured film world bubble, surrounded by loved ones, his Oscars, his colleagues, and his piles of money.   There's a man who will never have to struggle for his voice to be understood.

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